Another newcomer - already finding help

[JKL2009]

Hard to say, but I think the emotion I saw was focused on the doubt WAW has now on her decision to leave me combined with the pain she has felt for a long time when I was ignoring her hurt and not giving her the attention she should have.

I tried to keep some distance yesterday, which I think I did and I think I saw some reaction. At the end of the day after S went to bed we watched some TV and she said her feet hurt. I knew where this was going... so she put her feet in my lap for me to give her a foot rub. I did, she liked it. What can you do?

This week is going to be all about that space. I also need to really get some distance this coming weekend; we spend too much time together and I need to put that detachment into play more.