Quote: Is it smart DBing to bring up past things my H did to thank him? Earlier this year he arranged for a babysitter--a first for him. My grandfather died and I was planning on take S3 to the wake. I was totally surprised and shocked, but I never thanked him. Is this something that should wait until we're on more stable ground?
might be seen as reaching for things...I'd try to stick to things that are in the present...or things that can be tied into something current.
