Is it smart DBing to bring up past things my H did to thank him? Earlier this year he arranged for a babysitter--a first for him. My grandfather died and I was planning on take S3 to the wake. I was totally surprised and shocked, but I never thanked him. Is this something that should wait until we're on more stable ground?
I do have plans for tomorrow a co-worker gave me tickets to a Kitchen Tour of older houses that have been remodeled. I am so excited!! My Sis is coming with me. Tonight I'm having some gal pals over for gossip and beer. We were going to have a fire, but it's raining so we'll have to sit inside I'm afraid.
Cathy
P.S. Another thing about S3, on average he says "I love you mama" at least twice a day if not more during the week and even more on the weekends. We can be just walking, like to the football game last Saturday, with friends, at the mall and just out of the blue he says "I love you mama" it doesn't bother him at all and he says it freely---another lesson being learned. And hugs are also given freely.
