I am glad you are having a good time reuniting with your BF....but most of all I am very glad to hear he is opening up and talking to you.
So many times the WAS wants to come back and sweep what happened under the carpet which isn't healthy. It takes too people communicating to make a success of a R, so however 'pathetic' or garbled his explanations may sound at times, it is great that in his own way he is trying to explain it.
From my experience, you will learn more and more over time and sometimes these things will hurt and make you feel low. But those feelings pass and things just get better and better.
Hopefully you will form an even stronger bond than you had before.
BTW, I would expect tears at times when you least expect it......I know I would suddenly get hit with a jealousy that he had done this or that with OW or shared this or that moment with her. I felt she had stolen some shared experiences from us...so still allow yourself to grieve for the 'lost' time.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
