On the serious side... sure you do! You found your husband and he wanted to marry you.
I think something in my case is that you kind of float into the complacency mode and just expect your partner to be there with you. AND quite frankly there are a whole lot of couples out there that are still together that are in the same place as my wife and I were (mid life, kid in elementary school, balancing careers, etc) They are making it. I am sure they aren't living the exciting life they planned when they were 20 something but they also haven't packed up and left their partner either???
My wife has numerous friends that have labeled her as "a grass is greener kind of person". Their words not mine. I just was willing to accept her selfishness because I loved other things about her. There is no doubt that my wife's personality (selfish, self centered, and desire to have attention) played a big part in her deciding to leave at this stage of life.
So ...yes I wish I could go back and change some of the ways I treated her...BUT if she wasn't so self absorbed then I kind of think I would hav been given that chance.
Wow.. how things (in the head) change over time LOL!
Now on to the more pressing matters...I think if you shorten it to - Blondes have more fun, that's why I.....
I gurantee you will get a lot more inquiries LOL! Guys love the mystery and there is plenty of mystery in that. Heck, I'll bet someone contacts you just to see if you fell asleep while you were entering your profile.... steer away from those guys, they have no sense of humor LOL!
