Oh, last thing (LOL), I was reading a book on D and in it the H was saying that if his W hadn't been the b*tch he expected her to be, he would have never been able to leave her. She made it so easy. It is easier to walk away from a pitiful, broken, miserable person...probably wouldn't be for me because I am codependent and like saving people but when someone decides to leave and has already built up enough ammo to do so, well that vision of misery just wont bring them back.
