Quote: if you are really hung up on the fact that he didn't call to let you know he'd be away...you might ask him when planning the visiting shcedule (wich you will do right?) that if he plans to go away with any great distance he'll let you know..and you'll do the same. not because you want to or need to know to check up on him but because you are the parents of a young boy and should know where the other is incase of emergencies.