It's just a pattern thing dude. They get so nervous about your pulling away that they just "have to" see you. It doesn't mean jack squat dude. Just there way of reminding us of the insanity that is our exes.
So don't worry about it.... it's just stuff that happens.....and yes, I will be laughing at you.....
The one thing I do see, is that when I truly let go and started living life and a having fun it's like she can't stand it. I think it bugs the heck out of her.
Live your life to the fullest and let her stew. They can't stand to see us happy...they want us to be as miserable as they are...do not fall into her web of deceit....live your life and have fun while doing so.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
They will call you up out of the blue to talk about the dumbest s&*t you can imagine.
Mine asked me the other night when she called me at 11:45 PM (drunk on wine) if I was rolling my eyes and thinking ... 'whatever' at what she was saying to me. I was almost asleep when she called and was quietly listening.
I told her... 'no, I was rolling my eyes and thinking why I watched the road runner religiously when I was young hoping just once that Whiley Coyote would catch the road runner, only to be constantly disappointed.'
The silence from her cracked me up...
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
They will call you up out of the blue to talk about the dumbest s&*t you can imagine.
That sums it up perfectly. LOL!
I'm living life and having fun, trying my best to keep my distance. She used to accuse me of avoiding her. That went on for a while until I finally said, "hello? your divorcing me."
I'm doing my own thing, not really looking for anyone or dating yet. When that day comes, I think she will give crazy a whole new meaning.
I have to agree w/time. They do come up w/the strangest stuff to call or email about. It's called connection and sucking you back in.
I'm glad to see you are living life and having fun. That's very important now. Take each day as it comes and embrace all the good things that come your way.
Yep, she'll exhibit some crazy behavior when you do begin dating and especially if that someone become important in your life. Let's hope she's grown up by that time.
Enjoy the holiday!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I am enjoying being by myself and away from the drama. I do hope she makes it through this regardless of whether or not she wants to return. There is light at the end of all of this for me. It takes a little time to see that while going through all of this.
It's strange how different you view your old relationship too.
I'm doing my own thing, not really looking for anyone or dating yet. When that day comes, I think she will give crazy a whole new meaning.
Dude, you have no idea.
Mine said I was being "passive agressive" because I refused to answer her questions/interrogation about he lady I was dating. She said it was her right to know because she is the mother of my children (somewhere below the Virgin Mary yet above the Queen Mum in importance).
Whatever she does I guarantee it will be "Out of Left Field" as sung by Percy Sledge........
"When least expected fate stumbles in bringing light to the darkness Ohh what a friend"
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
