Yeah, it's probably too much to ask right now- she's still foggy.
It breaks my heart- what you're going through with your daughter. Your WAW is extremely cruel to keep your child from you like that.
Even at my most evil wayward self I wasn't that selfish. I would have never taken the kids (i have two) away from their dad. Just because I didn't want to be married to him anymore didn't mean he wasn't a good father.
Unbelievable.
What I really don't get is the fact that she is basically in danger of losing custody and she acts oblivious in person. She didn't bother showing up to her Psych Eval hearing, as if she has something better to do, didn't bother filing a response, and her attorney is probably having difficulty getting her to cooperate for her own best interests.
She has been scheduled for deposition, I've hit her with discovery requests and a threat to file a motion to compel if she doesn't response in a set time frame, she has to complete the Psych Eval by June 13, and right now her attorney isn't even responding to emails.
My guess is that she is living in la la BPD world right now, since this isn't fun she's going to pretend it isn't happening and start acting like she is already D'd.
She picked up D1 the other day, had her hair with new highlights, and seemed to have fixed herself up. She was acting extremely (comparatively) nice to me, possibly because she knew I was taking a trip out of town and she could see OM unencumbered.
All is right in her world as long as she gets her fix... it is like Nero fiddling while Rome burns. At least I act like I care whether I get custody or not. She just seems to take it for granted she can ignore what the judge orders and she'll get everything she wants.
I think both the judge and her attorney are getting tired of her.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
