Snodderly, grace and sleeper..... I agree with you all. BUT I do not believe she wants my xh, she has had plenty opportunties. She broke it off with him and when he broke up with this gf the first time, he called her and she had a chance then but didnt take it. Then xh and gf broke up for 2 more days and nothing happened then. I do agree though that this is a bad relationship, because I do not agree with the things she does. She has been with several guys since her divorce and doesnt care for one night stands. I am sooooo opposite of this. I dont understand why she is constantly talking about how gross and terrible looking my xh is. She is a VERY confident woman and tells me I need to be as well. She says " I need to get rid of the WOE IS ME attitude". I probably do. I am such a good hearted person, I try to find the good in everyone but I am ready to move on with my life. I dont think I can continue to be friends with someone that slept with my husband. I thought I could do this but now I am thinking differently. I guess you all think I am really crazy. Like I said, I think the only reason I started talking to her is because she brings me info without me even asking. I dont need this either. On one positive note, if my xh is peeking over his gf's shoulder to look at her then what does that say about his gf and his relationship...he obviously hasnt changed. My relationship is sooooo much different than he has with these women. He even told me once, if you can believe him, that they were not marrying material. They were just someone to have fun with, that if he wanted to be married he would be married to me. BUT yet he is getting married to this girl. I do think I am safe to him and more like motherly in his eyes. They are fun to him and he is looking for fun for now.
