Yes I agree..But it can only happen when we are ready! It also happened around the time we met and I gave him that speech (I guess it was a Dobson thing)..where I said I forgave him and I loved him, but if he wants to be with her and he was happy, then I accept it and will take friendship if thats all he has to offer, but he had to let me know as I couldnt go on anymore. He then said, he had to man up, grow some balls and make a decision and asked for some more time. So perhaps it was that also?
The nightie? Well I'm not talking flanelette, lol, it was real silk and very pretty as well as a bit saucy, as we say in the UK. And yes, he noticed my new underwear sets and actually complimented me on them !!