Hello everyone! So I guess I made it, I got the golden ticket 2nd chance to Piecing. Funny thing is, when I just tried to create a new thread here a message came up "you are not allowed to create a new topic in this forum" (I am never logged out, but I had changed some settings on my PC and was logged out and hadnt realised). For a moment then, I thought the universe was trying to tell me something!! So anyway I am piecing it seems and now the hard work begins.

It already has, but me and my bf have such a harmonious way of relating that we have already laughed about some issues that could have been difficult/upsetting. But then anyone following my threads will have seen that humour always saved us. Thats what I noticed this weekend. We were amongst friends and me and him were the ones that made others laugh alot, but more to the point, we laughed privately alot.. we really crack each other up. It was absolutely lovely. Thats one of the reasons I wanted him in my life again on a permanent basis. Other than I love him, of course, but wow, he always made me laugh so much the past 13+ years and boy did I miss that when I didnt see him for those 4 horrible months. He really is my best friend.

Heres my threads for anyone who wants to know!!
Walked out after 9 years
Is this is?? 1
Is this it?? 2
MLC or just IDLYA?
Shows no regret, MLC
Now we're friends??
Friends is a start?
Four months on
Depression confirmed!
Will he reconnect?
Probably over?
Freaky friendship now
Backing off again?
Now I have NFC!
6 months on
Stuck in Stage 2!
A flicker of life?
Are we dating now?
Still stuck Stage 2
Wants to be on his own
Still depressed.. me too!
Depressed and angry now!
No expectations
Yep, still depressed
Looks the end is nigh
He gone back to NC?
Not sure what's happened
A year since we separated
Wondering when NC ends / EA/PA?
He's been kidnapped!!
This is the week that was / Pluto and the MLC
A year ago nearly
Out of NC again!
Writing a novel!
A year ago today
Change is on its way
Now what?
He's 'confused' now
Eclipses coming up!
Says he just had an MLC!
Wants to finish with ow
I finally detached
A Tale of Two Ex's
Over with ow yet or not?
Finished with ow !!
He has come back?


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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