How do I not let this control my every thought?

[kat727]

Hon, it isn't just the wives, husbands are like that too. They see the mistakes they made and now think they can just threaten you and you will cave.

It does get better. I know you would do anything to have your life back but just realize that even if she comes back it won't be like it was. It HAS to be different.

It has taken me a long time to get here. I wanted to make sure all my stones were unturned. He won't be coming back, he won't be allowed back in. I have moved on. I am not with someone(though I have someone on my mind). I didn't think it was fair to make someone go through all of this too. Besides the last thing we need is a band aide.

Make the rest of today special.

kat