Unfortunately I had to contact H today because we had a fraud on our checking account--BUT the good news is I just got to the point and said goodbye real quick. Usually Id linger and ask how his day is going or what he had planned for the day..but I didn't do that. I didnt even tell him to have a good day.Big step for me. I kept is very business-like. If only I didnt have to contact him about finances..but at this point every little step forward is a good one