How can I set boundries with her when in here mind the relationship is over? What can I use as a consequence for her actions? I don't want to be controling but I do see the need to set some sort of rules with consequence I do understand that, but how?


Me:39
W:38
D:9
D:7
First Bomd: Dec 08
Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM
M: 13yrs
T: 14:yrs