Ditch the woman. She's trouble and she's using you and your xh to get what she wants. Anyone who goes to such lengths to tell you about your xh and that he's still into her....well..that's it for me. I don't care how nice she's been because she's after something and that something is information. If she's bringing you information, you can surely bet that she's taking information right back to your xh as well. Yes, she wants to see you move on and get a life because she is waiting in the wings on your xh to ditch the youngster. This woman does not care about you for if she did, she would not be talking to you about such things, especially sleeping w/your xh.

Renee, step up to the plate and ditch her. You are better than that and you do not need to have people of this caliber in your life. You are only as lonely as you make yourself. Start making plans w/your family and get out there and do something. Pack a lunch and go to a park, go to the local bookstore and hang out. This time of year always brings out free activities. Take one step today and tomorrow two steps.

It's time to take back your life and only you can do it.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.