thank you. i retained a lawyer last year when my h filed, but we never moved forward.

i do know the process and what will happen next if we proceed.

i know what i am entitled to and what i will be asking for.

it helps that most of my family are lawyers as well.

but since its really not what i wanted, not what we have leaning towards, it is very hard to switch gears.

hard to go from all of a sudden working together on our business to total opposite.

h was home last night, confusing to me, not sure why he is here if he doesnt want to be.

see what happens today.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09