Hello PM,

Like everyone here I am really sorry to hear about the children's reaction to the D. My stomach was turning over as I was reading your post, I could feel the pain coming through the words and I feel so upset for your children.

As Karen, Kev and 25yrs has said and I have said to you before, you are an incredible woman, you even DB'ed when you were talking (listening) to your H about his work. That takes alot of guts and self control and I admire you for it.

Your H clearly does not know what he is losing and the hurt he is inflicting on you and your children. I feel the same way, how can you hurt the people you love so badly and not even think twice?

You has risen above all this and showed you are the better person. Something I'm sure will come of this, it sorts of feels inevitable you will/are going to achieve something amazing because of who and what you are.

Stay strong PM, we are here for you.

Mark x


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years