good luck today in court. You really are up against it, but I will think of you today and your daughter.
My situation is alike in that my W mentioned to me our son who is 7 years old is very 'clingy' at the moment. When he is with me he follows me everywhere, he is so distressed and yet my W said it as though he was getting a cold or something. As much as she loves our children she seems to be putting herself first and I find thid very hard to take.
You, like me know we cannot do or say anything to our WAS's that will make any difference. Just do the best for you and your daughter, what is what you CAN control. I am trying really hard to 'drop the rope' - To let my W go, as pursuing, snooping etc is just counter-productive and makes the situation worse. We cannot totally cut interaction because of the children, but I do not initiate any calls unless it concerns the children.
Please try to block out thoughts of your H and the fog he is in. I am the same as you, I think about my W 24/7 and this situation is some sort of re-occuring nightmare. It doesn't do me any good to keep thinking of my W as it eats me away inside, I am trying to detach from her as best I can, please try to do the same if possible. You do sound slightly better than you did and it is good you are going out, meeting friends etc.
We are all impatient but this process takes time, as alot of my posters say, think about YOU and your children, be the best parent you can, improve yourself and try to re-build your self-esteem and confidence. This is an area I need to improve on.
Innis, best wishes today and let us know how things went.
Good luck,
Mark
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
