Hi everyone,

Am about to go to court in a couple of hours; Safety Order hearing, Access and Maintenance.

I am standing for myself and my daughter today, against the most outrageous behaviour of my H is the last 4 and a half months.

Am at a loss to understand how our lives have taken such a detour. Yesterday (Sunday) he didnt evem ring our D to say hello. He was with OW and her sons; where he now resides.

Why he is even threatening to come back into our house is beyond me; its cruel. I am fighting so hard to keep our D on an even keel and to help her come to terms with teh reality that her dady has left us. Let alone my own grief and anguish.

I wish that things were getting easier everyone. in some ways I cant complain; i am picking up work here and there before I go back to my job in September. I am getting out and about meeting friends, keeping busy and active.

But i just cant understand why someone could want to pt ou of a life like this; that he feels that the one with OW is worth this? He is in such a fog; if he is in a relationship with his dev. mang then his company will be saved?

the damage that he has caused our D7 continues to come out......I am coping as best as I can.