She also seems so different because your perspective is skewed! You're not seeing her with a completely rational mind right now either! She is a different person right now...for sure. Don't bother trying to change her, or her mind right now. You can't! She's so screwed up that she's neglecting her kids. They go through a tremendously selfish mode...where it's all about them. And they don't feel bad about what they're doing either...they are completely justified...in their mind...warped as it is. So, you have to focus on you and your kids and your job. I know it's hard, and I know it hurts. It SUCKS...but that's where you're at right now. I'm sorry. I know you hate it...understandably! If you still care and are able...don't give up hope...but let go and detatch.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
