She is definitely not the same person now. I cant believe she would put even her own kids aside for him. She wouldn't even like to go to work for the afternoon without seeing them and now shes going days without even calling! I'm beginning to wonder if she even wants custody at all as they are just getting in her way of having fun and being "free". I haven't given up hope but it just seems to be getting harder to hang onto as each day goes by.