I don't think asking one question is begging. Or sharing your thoughts on that. Obviously her not wearing it has nothing to do with forgetting, and for you to ask her about that is begging? I don't mean yelling or whatever, but simply asking what's going on about that?
OK then, "nagging." I don't intend to nag my wife into wearing her ring, which is supposed to be a symbol of her commitment to me. I've told her before how I felt about it (as recently as two weeks ago, when we re-re-reconciled), and I called her on it today. And as soon as she had a chance to do something about it, as we were going out, she still didn't have it on.
I'm not going to say anything else. If she asks me why I don't have MINE on, I will tell her because I'm not going to be the only one in this marriage projecting to the outside world that I AM married, and tell her "Here, in fact you can have it. Why don't you give it back to me when you're ready to be fully committed to this marriage."
