Is my sitch WAS or MLC?

[peacetoday]

Inn
My children were very stressed at first also especially my 14 yr old who was 11 then
i was also in so much pain
my son 7 was wheezing a lot
it was so difficult then
I spent a lot of time talking to my kids especially older one and listening easpecially at bedtime
I think it gave them a sense we would be ok
mom was ok
I told them dad was in crises( I thought that was truth) and we prayed for him
I gave then some hope because I also felt H would return one day
now we are D 2years 6months post bomb
I tell them the truth as it fits today
I think being there for them is the most important thing
my XH also would not tlak to me at first for some months and then was very sporatic
and still today
one day he is talkative pleasant and helpful
next
day he is totally angry withdrawn hateful uncoommunicative
so I just go with the flow
I worry about me and kids and let himn go/act whatever way he sees fit
it no longer affects me for the most part
peace