K its understandable , your concerns , thoughts and feelings this is not an easy road good that you also undertand your H is still confused and in crises he will connect and distance he probably has so much to process through I do think they fear the M will be the same and the changes are not real all you can do is what you are already doing being there for him then letting him go he will ultimately make the decision and he made need lots of time and space for this good you stay busy be there for him when time is right trust the process peace
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