K
its understandable , your concerns , thoughts and feelings
this is not an easy road
good that you also undertand your H is still confused and in crises
he will connect and distance
he probably has so much to process through
I do think they fear the M will be the same and the changes are not real
all you can do is what you are already doing
being there for him
then letting him go
he will ultimately make the decision and he made need lots of time and space for this
good you stay busy
be there for him when time is right
trust the process
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow