Hi D,
For a short time my H felt competitive with me. He was resentful that I bought the girls new beds, tickets for a musical in the fall...he wasn't interacting much with them then either..but the teenage mentality followed..listening to rap/fixing up the car..this was all just a few weeks ago. A few miserable weeks with OW later and H is contemplating moving home when his lease is up in 6 weeks. He's being open with me about the OW..It may be too soon, we've both talked about it, not sure what his decision will be....

Things can change slowly or fast- you just never know...so keep up the detachment/care for our wife and take care of yourself and the kids.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.