i know i know, stay out of it. i know. let her figure it out for herself. i know i know.
im just so hurt, so angry.
the store will now go under. he has lost all focus. we were working so well together, as a team, and he fell apart.
Good advice!!! I think in time though, your H clearly sounds a mess, and you can recover from this. If he doesn't work on his issues, he's going to continue to lead a messy, unhappy life. Detach and work on creating a healthier, more positive life for yourself. Your H is kind of a sinking ship right now and best to distance yourself from that.
I wouldn't expect your H or the OW to listen to logic or rational thought, or use it themselves. At least not now. So there prob. wouldn't be much point in trying to talk with them. I spent a few months doing that until finally I realized, dern, logic doesn't work with these WAS!!! I was told and told by people here, but sometimes you just have to figure it out I guess. Karen
