Divorce looming #13

[K4D]

Interesting day today. I dropped off my kids at SIL's house for their pool party. All the family was going to be there. I was told that I cannot stay there because MIL does not want me there and SIL does what MIL says. Ok. Fine. So I dropped them off at 1pm.

I went back to where I was yesterday at the resturant/bar on the lake. I am just sitting there and a lady walks up to me and asks if I mind if she sits with me. I say I don't mind. So we start talking and I'm thinking she is just being a friendly person and I was there by myself anyways so I will take the company. She says she is new to the area and doesn't really know anyone. I can relate as far as not knowing to many people. Then after a few minutes of talking She asks me if I want to mess around. I'm like what? She then tells me she is cheap. She is a prostitute and wanting business from me. I couldn't believe it. I thought she was just a nice friendly person. Obviously I said no and then she left. I'm sitting there wondering did I look that pathetic? All I was doing was sitting there passing the time by before I go get my kids. Unreal.

So anyways, at 3 I start to head out to go get my kids. I call SIL and say I am on my way. She says ok and will get the kids ready.

I know I am not supposed to talk about this. But I have a question in this. W then calls me back and says they just threw food on the grill and W has been inside and hasn't gotten to spend time with them yet and asked me if there was somewhere I needed to be with them. I said no. She says why can't I let them stay longer then. I said I can. I was just told that the party would be over sometime after 3pm. And nobody told me differently. She tells me that she would like to have them stay longer. I said ok. She tells me that she will bring them home after. I said ok.

Its after 5 now and I haven't heard anything since. Should I text her and ask her when she is planning on bringing them back? Should I have let them stay or should I have gone ahead and picked them up since this is my week with the kids and I was excluded from being able to do this with them and the family. I only took the kids because they wanted to go and I wanted the kids to enjoy themselves. I don't think they should be kept out of stuff just because of what is going on with the D. I am trying to be the better person and not do what W's family is doing to me.

Any thoughts?

Kevin