Well, I don't think it's going to happen that fast, like this week. She needs IC and at some point, her IC might recommend MC for you both? I know patience is hard, but I think you have to give your W a chance to get IC and work on her issues if she says she is going to. If she doesn't in a month or 2 or 3, then you can decide what to do then. I think you have to be more patient now. Karen