I hate to say this, but I don't think your h ever completed his crisis completely. Something interfered with his journey and when they are "snatched" out of the crisis, generally they will go back into crisis at a later time and it's usually worse than the first time around.
All I can suggested is leave him alone, give him plenty of space and pull from deep within you for patience and compassion. He's got to finish his journey and nothing can stop it. Focus on you and be sure to take care of the financials and the assets for if he's back for a second go round on the Mother Ship, money will be spent quite freely.
I know that this isn't what you wanted to hear, but I honestly do think he's never completed his journey.
Please take care of yourself and allow God to work on your h.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
