Hoop,
Iknow--I should have let her suffer but I didn't.

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I hope for your wellbeing this is over before Oct.


I hope so too.

I'm actually not feeling that bad mentally at this point. I haven't gone all melty man as PDT puts it. I'm going to have a nice relaxing day/evening at home and just do nothing.

I told my daughter that if she doesn't want to spend the night w/ the wife she needs to tell her. I have found that getting in the middle gets me no where. My daughter isn't afraid to tell me what's on her mind but she's afraid to tell the wife? I will be bringing this up w/ her counselor next week. I mean, I don't get it--the wife has no control whatsoever over my daughter regarding anything and she's still afraid to tell her how she feels.


I am continuing my investigation--this is the week I should have a name and what type of vehicle this scumbag drives. I don't have the money for a PI but I will do some drivebys at the wife's apartment to verify that scumbag is in fact visiting. We'll see how it goes after that. I think I'll call his wife as if she really is a Col--she will be on the global.

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The only thing you want to talk to with her is fixing the marriage and taking care of your daughter.


I keep telling myself this however it is still difficult to comprehend the whole situation as it stands and how my wife of 15 years has betrayed me and abandoned our family. There's no way she could ever call me a coward without looking like a hypocrite.

Thanks for the input. Hope you and everyone else is having a good weekend.

Cheers,
John


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!