Taking a break. We worked through the kitchen. It was emotional for both of us. It wasn't a big deal working through furniture but kitchen stuff has so many emotions tied in. Gifts from wedding, cups from vacation to wherever, cast-iron griddle for kids pancakes Sunday mornings, china, Oster beehive blender in copper (aka the Margarita Machine), Riedel glassware (our trip to Napa). And a discussion on the merits of stainless vs anodized cookware. (I wanted and got the stainless).

I visibly showed some stress once and she mentioned "you're doing that forehead wrinkling thing." "I know, I know, I haven't done in it weeks until this. Finished off with a big hug.

Flirty note: I was reaching up for something and my shirt rode up she commented, "Oooh, somebody has a smooooth tummy." I smiled back and said "Yup, and all the rest is too" (hands motioning below waist). She blushed. I don't know if it will lead to anything but I had nothing to lose.

"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh