Your right Antlers, she is gone and I need to stop thinking about it. Thank you for the support, at a time when I need it most. Today I found out that she has been bringing the kids around him. they told me about him and the playground and ice cream after. The one thing that I asked her is to not bring the kids around him. She really has no respect for me. I'm trying my hardest not to loose it and call her and say WTF.