One other thing that I always have wanted but never really got to, is to really put in some effort in my appearance. Not that I look crappy....but, my look is neat and functional........I would love to change that up!
I always talk myself out of it by saying 'I can't pull that off'....but, what a great 180 that would be.....to dress, lets say...whimsical....for 2 days of the week!
That sounds like a great idea. I think (he$$ I know) people in a M get a little complacent. Try shooting for a look that is say...hot, not trampy but hot.
I remember when my wife and I sepreated but lived inthe same house. I went out and bought new clothes (dressed up more). MY neighbor who is a good friend saw me once and she commented on looking good.... my response was thanks I am trying to look good but every time I walk out I look at my wife and she looks hot! She is winning at this game LOL!
Like I say, even though she was the one that wanted to leave, seeing her in nice outfits got the blood flowing.... women have that effect on guys
Get a girlfiend to go out with you if you aren't use to dressing differently. they can give you a second oppinion and help you get just on the edge of your comfort zone.....or even better if you have a guy friend go shopping with him.
As a guy shopping isn't the same experience for me as most women I know BUT.... I have gone shopping with W and other girlfriends in the past where they were looking for one item like a dress for our date or dinner party and it was fun and exciting for me... SO enough sharing of info. Just liked your idea of spicing up your wardrobe a little especially if it is something you would think s fun!
