So, I asked him again and he was still totally convinced that he did not meet her for dinner. Yes, he had dinner that night with one of her collegues and someone else but not her. When I showed him the emails, he was even more confused. I believe him that he does not believe she was there, but she most obviously was. There is no denying it. He has somehow suppressed this memory. Pn the positive side, he's now agreed that he will go see a counselor. Meanwhile, I'm just trying to figure out if he did supress this memory, are there more? I do want to move on, but when the puzzle pieces aren't fitting, it's not as easy. Does anyone have any experience with this?