wow, for just a minute I thought you were going to go 24 hours without posting about her...but NOPE...and I had NO idea you were posting WHILE you are WITH THEM....see this makes it like they lose both parents. Sure, it's not as bad as going out to a bar or someone's house as you are "in the room with them"...but can you focus on THEM for a few hours and NOT your w?
As for the guy telling you all your apparent deficiencies and how he'll whip you into shape and get you looking good, is this feedback you invited from him?
It's a lot to take and I live in a place that prides itself on people's looks. But to have someone tell you ALL that about your teeth and face shape and body and clothes....is he a professional image consultant? Nothing wrong with that but I was wondering why in the heck some guy would offer that kind of commentary to you.
Anyhow, Kevin, good luck...please learn from all the efforts that have gone your way. Do us that much and take SOME of the advice, if you can't do it all. Can you do the basics? No more about the f- wife of yours. NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR ABOUT HER....NO ONE HERE WANTS TO HEAR ABOUT HER...so can you just NOT mention her for 24 hours??
I will try really hard to post to you IF you can stop talking about her. It's sick. Not attractive, not helpful to YOU or anyone else. How many times do you think you'll have to see and hear that before you'll change? Just wondering. Also, what are you doing that IS different now, than you were 3-6 months ago?
I know about the apartment. Good. Got a job. Good. But you personally....anything? Oh, and don't use religion to make your wife wrong or "show the girls that she's wrong" and that you are right. It's unfair to God and misses the entire point of YOUR FAITH and what it does for YOU....show by example that God is a loving God and a strengthening one. I've said this ALREADY I KNOW.....but you seem to need many repetitions to "hear" somethings....
Also, Your wife's mistakes or sins are 1) for God to judge and 2) do NOT make YOU right. Do you see that? Whatever SHE does has nothing to do with whether you are a good man.
So she really is irrelevant. So don't talk about her anymore. Period. Be the best man you can be. Period. I don't want to say this anymore. It's enabling.
J-
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