It's been a while since I've been here, alot has been going on since I last posted. (I was formerly ral819) My STBX has finally filed D. I'm still living at home until at least the next court date in the end of June. The STBX hates it but, C'est La Vie. She speaks to me now as her freedom is near. She was ignoring me for awhile. She is also being careful as to her living right now. She doesn't make any questionable moves now that her freedom is coming. Of course I watch closely, and speak up when I have a question. She is pursuing her future and I'm letting her fly. No more being a doormat now.