Hi Craig, Long time since we talked. I hope you remember me (the idiot formerly known as ral819) I have to agree with Jack. It sounds like you need to stay out of your X's tornado. She is obviously still in a fog and your getting sucked into her tornado every time you see her. Movin on time is here my friend. Keep contact about the kids only and sever the rest. This is about you now. I'm on a path toward D myself. My STBX finally filed. She wouldn't respond to me unless it was about the S11. Now she tries to be nice and communicate that she has filed. She sees her freedom. This is her journey and I'm letting her fly. I still have feelings for her but, No More Doormat... Good luck, Be Strong.
