i think he must have some cash stashed somewhere, claims he really doesnt, needs money from others to fund the store and keep it running, therefore his stash stays in tact.
he then uses his stash to spend on gas and whatever else on her.
pretty sure he is paying her phone and internet access (ive done my research).
we have household bills not paid right now.
what ever stash he is, isnt much left, i dont think it can fund the store and keep that going either.
its a big mess, but i cant let my family getting further into the mess or myself, financially.
im thinking to go into the store this morning, i want to see the register tapes from the last week or so, i want to see the check book, see what money went in and out, see what i can and cant account for.
even if he is taking $20 a day out of the register, using it for gas to go to her, its just not ok right now.
he made the choice to come home, leave his job "focus on us".
it is not ok to spend our business money, money that should pay our bills, somewhere else, when there just isnt enough money to go around. did i mention the bank acct is in the negative?
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
