He ran off with his neice, his brothers daughter. At first it was an online affair, however I beleive he fully planned to sleep with her - he organised a holiday to go 'see the family' and managed to sleep with her "accidentally" it just happened - he was 40. her parents seemed fine with it; came back dumped us all, ran straight back there where upon he embarked on a 3 month live in relationship with her, felt sorry and bad so asked to come back home I said OK, lied to me never ended it, couldnt connect with us, and brought her out for a secret "holiday". after she left he acted like an idiot for 3 months, rfused to stop speaking w her, then ran back over there again. havent heard from him since.
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.