25...Feeling sad tonight...thinking of what used to be. Checked in here specifically to re-read your post from yesterday...you really have a way of clearing the BS that clouds the mind. Thank you...I feel better already...this helped in particular...
"Maybe you'd learn to live on your own, provide stability for the kids, let them see a woman happy with herself and without a man, or allow yourself the chance of meeting a healthy man and having a healthy R with one and letting your kids see that and letting yourself FEEL THAT...
Based on his recent and present behavior and what he tells you about his feelings...what do you think God is telling you? And see, the rub is that you believe something you say or do will make a difference but you cannot know. WE can't know if your will stay OR what would make him do so. WE CAN tell you what we've found that makes them LEAVE or STAY AWAY...and you sticking around and doing more of the same has done what for you so far? Dont' stop the one thing that has gotten any reaction from him. If he wants to use your moving a mere 2 hours away as an excuse for "him not trying anymore" (as if he had been trying) then he's looking for an excuse not to try
If you stay, he'll say you didn't give him space. I mean, do what's best for you and the kids. And stick with a decision until if and when HE gives you a reason (a REASON, not a hint or a look or a sigh or a blah blah blah) to change your mind."
