Yes, I saw the double standard on Fb immediately. She was so angry about it at first.

I've also considered the polarity thing much lately. I will consider dating. I'm certainly better at noticing flirting lately (and I told W this). W knows about relation with woman-friend, who really is just a friend. (W keeps mentioning pics of woman-friend in athletic stuff/bikini on boards).

I've been paying a lot of attention to clothes, appearance (always have but now much more).

House stuff. I do nice things for her (help her with her bags, make her coffee) but I'm not compelled to do endless chores or kid issues.

No contact will be good.


Last edited by orangedog; 05/24/09 04:03 AM.
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