WOW....That is just an incredible story. It is truly saddening that a husband and family and can be so insensitive to the children and you. Did I really read you story correct...he left you for a 17 year old with a daughter? Some men need to flogged and beaten...I am all about DB'ing, but this is just wrong. It is people like this that laws are written about. In the end, his behavior definitely shows he was not worth your love, but the scars still remain all the same.