Need help and Support

[Red Hope]

Here is my story... I have been married 13 years two kids with my wife, daughter 9 & 7. I also have a daughter 15 from another woman. We found out about oldest daugher when she was 7 years old. I think this was the start of the problems in our relationship. Through the years my wife was trying to comunicate the problems we had but i just didn't understand. Until Dec 2008 my wife told me she wanted out. She didn't love me anymore and she needed space. I like an idiot started pursuing her which point the said she didn't love me any more and that she doesn't know if she ever did love me. I have now read divorce remedies, and am doing the 180. I am still having problems and I backslide. I just need someone to talk to and help me out. I try not to get angry and out burst... I love her very much and don't want to lose her. She has not file for D yet, and we still live together and sleep in the same bed. In Aug 2009 our lease is up and she wants us to get seperate places, and she is taking the kids.

H (39)
W (38)
D (7)
D (9)
M (13)
bomb dec 08