To little to late...

[antlers]

NOTHING that you say or do will change her mind right now, man! I know it's hard and you feel like it's 'pushing' her farther away, but it's not! She's already 'gone' right now...you decreasing communication with her right now is the BEST thing for YOU...it'll help you detatch. There's always hope, if you're willing to hang in there. You need to STOP focusing on her RIGHT NOW...and start focusing on you! She's 'in the fog' right now, and she will not come out of it until she decides to on her own. You have no say so anymore, you have no control over her anymore. I know it's tough to hear these things, and I know it hurts. You can not control her thoughts, feelings, or actions...so don't bother. You CAN control your thoughts, feelings, and actions...so do it! This is a marathon, not a sprint. Buckle in, buckle down, and get tough...read, learn, become a better man and a better father. You CAN do it. Focus on you, your child, and your job. You CAN do this. I know how bad it hurts, and I'm sorry that you're having to deal with this. It happens. There are lots of us here.