Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

Update
H and I spent most of Friday together as I had it off. We had some really good talks-he is still opening up alot about his doubts and fears and what he's been going through with the OW for the past several weeks.
I told him about some brainstormng I'd done regarding he future he and I had talked about-downsizing and simplifying our lives/house, putting the money saved away for the girls college fund(super-important goal for him)..Showed him some townhomes I'd looked at with D11 last weekend...He was really interested and talked about the possibility of us doing that together.

The girls had a b-day slumber party to go to last night. H and I went out to dinner and had a really good time(the pints helped!). Went back to his place and I stayed over. It was awesome but felt a bit fast for both of us. Neither of us is sure
how to proceed. H talks about a future together, but not as an absolute-still hedging his bets a bit which is understandable. But definite improvement. Talked about changing cell phone number so OW couldn't reach him even though he didn't think she would-he sees a lot of her flaws now.