Ah okay, so others here thought you should step that up more?
In my first marriage my husband never gave me affection or attention unless he wanted sex. Then he would step up the affection until he got what he wanted and then he would be back to taking me for granted. Vicious cycle.
Not projecting, just wondering.
In the beginning was she sexually attracted to you and enthusiastic? Or is it something that happened after a few years?
