Anyone else been truly abandoned? I'd love to hear

[forward]

Your situation is one of the hardest I have read about. I can't blame you for feeling furious w/ILs. But think--what would you do if it were your kid? One thing I have realized is that MLCers lie and exaggerate.

My ILs were going to be all nicey-nice and be supportive of everyone. While I felt for them, I also was not going to see them take OW to the nicest restaurants in town and basically make it easy for H to divorce me. They are not in touch with me but I still send them pictures. I am going to be the better person.