Puppy, I've read some of your posts but I'm new here so I'm new to DB (my marriage is not in crisis). So forgive me if I could be missing something.
Are your texts and flirty always sexual? Is everything a prelude to sex?
No, on the contrary. We have a long-term (20-year) sex-starved marriage, so I'm trying to work on this more. People were advising me to take more initiative in this area.
