Sounds good. I think you should go to the meetup group tomorrow and work on some of that stuff, lifting weights, etc. That prob. would help your self-confidence and appearance, so a good idea. Get a hair cut, buy new clothes, all of it's good for you. Although I have to say that guy sounds a little pushy or something, but still some good ideas.
I think a lot of times us LBS are kind of focused too much on others and our WAS are kind of self-focused. I think it's good for us to focus on ourselves sometimes, healthier for us and our kids too if we're healthier and happier. Karen